Gratitude

Gratitude 🙏🏽 for everything goes a long way.

I have been making a concerted effort to positively co-parent and work collaboratively with my kid’s father and ever since I made this decision, magical things have been happening in our lives:

1) Gavin is initiating tough conversations with me and Gigi. He is very intelligent, not a fan of talking incessantly like his mom and sister, but when it’s time for him to express himself, he does so naturally, confidently, and freely shares what is on his mind.

2) Gigi is doing things outside of her comfort zone. Yesterday she initiated procuring an eye exam to get new glasses and get her computer fixed. We both crashed out, multiple times, and she made me dinner even if she was super tired. What she made for me was so delicious, I took pics to remind myself I want to recreate it.

3) Gerald willingly helps us do things around our new house I do not understand nor am I interested in understanding because of his deep love for his children. Gavin just calls him and things get done. Like our air conditioning works now, our washing machine doesn’t leak anymore and works too, and he even lets me use half of his driveway so the Benz has a home 🏡 because I don’t have the parking skills to house two vehicles in my garage.

God is good, always 🙏🏽. This 1st 🥇 of the month I want to focus on gratitude. For all the small things, big things, and everything in between 💙

Liars never 👎 prosper

To make a long story short, the security guard ending up being cool. Good thing I cooled off and treated him with respect.

The scared old man who made false allegations and told the security guard my dog “attacked” him was clearly lying and I straight up called him a liar to his face and punked his ass. I’m sure he ate his balls when I did that.

He promptly closed his garage on me as I flipped him off multiple times in front of the police, after they reviewed video footage of his lying ass. I told him he needs to fix his brain 🧠 because his weak, fearful mind, attacked his ass and not my dog.

Lesson here. Watch out for people like me, who try 🙏🏽 our best to do right, mind our own business, but when it is time, with God’s hand, is blessed with a lion’s strength 🦁 to call out LIARS every single time, to their face. I’ve done this countless of times in my life and they all have the same reaction: recoil in shame and anger for being caught.

Best to keep on the straight and narrow path and pray 🙏🏽 for guidance and strength because God will provide.

Adios m/f 🖕

Always Be Ready 🙏🏽

Praying 🙏🏽 hands are the strongest 💪.

Allow people to show you who they really are and you get to choose ✅ what you’re gonna do with that information. Choose wisely.

Watch and listen more.

Talk less.

When it’s time to pull the trigger of “Action,” everyone will know you did not come to “Play” 🏈.

🦁

🧐

🤗

👋

Show them you’re a beast. Smart 🧐, strong 💪, self controlled 🌟and most of all God 🙏🏽 fearing.

Praying that you always stay strong, aware, happy, and protected 👼

Create your own luck 🍀 with your left hand.

And watch infinite ♾️ possibilities open up on your right hand.

Yes, we all have experienced brokenness, multiple betrayals, addictions, personal tragedies, multiple heart breaks, grief, sorrow, lethargy, oppression, learning challenges, but I’m here to say, be better and kinder to yourself in small ways. A little everyday, goes a long way. Do it for yourself. If you love another more than yourself then that’s your idol - your personal deity.

Putting first things first matters:

(1) God

(2) Self

(3) Family

(4) Work

(5) Fun

(6) Friends

(7) Extracurricular

It’s Monday. Set the tone energetically. Also, we’re only 7 days away from a new month. Don’t bring in August’s 💩 into September.

Fall will be romantic but not be long enough 🍂 then the cold Winter ❄️ will slap us around and Mother Nature will show up and show who’s Boss. Don’t get caught out in the cold 🥶

Buck up 🐎 buttercups 💚

This new song to me 🎧 popped up while writing this post so maybe 🤔 Jin inspired this post? lol 🤷🏻‍♀️Have a good rest of this month❣️

🎧: Audio here

New roots 🌱

I can feel my new roots growing in this new life I am building for me and my bloodline.

Everyone who I intentionally cut off I am happy to and I will never disrespect them in public but they better not test my a$$ and leave me the F/ alone FOREVER ♾️.

They absolutely know who they are because I have emails and text messages to put them on blast if they even “think” of pulling the same shit they did with my kids when they were cluster f/ing each other and displaced my children for 2 years.

This post is a warning ⚠️ for ALL OF them. Watch out m/f’ rs, you will never 👎 have my trust again and you will, and forever ♾️, be on my personal shit 💩 list.

God is watching your ass. Not just me. Stay outta my way and I will do the same.

🎧: 🖕Audio

Mark these words

If Anger is not from God, I do not want this, or anyone else’s for that matter.

What’s important is to:

OBSERVE how someone behaves out of

Anger,

+

Fear,

+

Greed

( because it absolutely reveals )

=

WHO THEY ARE AT THEIR CORE

Because Anger, as corrosive as it is, is an absolute truth serum 🙏🏽

Watch them 👀

Avoid them 🛑

Cut them the f/ off your life 💔

And walk away forever🚶🏾‍♀️

They are dead to me ☠️

Protect your peace 🕊️like your life depends on it because it does 🎯

How I fight

I first pray about my strategy, ask for forgiveness for my own transgressions that are known/unknown by me, and then I do the following:

1) Stand my ground

2) Make the ground I stand on as my truth

3) Choose the path that leads to the most peaceful outcome

4) Disengage with sincerity, humility, and understanding

5) Listen with my whole being

6) Strategize with love, not sales, and let God take charge

7) Go back to #1

Me lako kung gana karela eganagana

Ali ku buri ing pamilia ku lupa la reng pera pera pera sikan sikan sikan.

Ing kataparan ku keng Dios ku pu at tatang ku pu alana keni pero ing lugud at protección nah neng Dios y Papa ku para kaku atchu ya parin 🙏🏽

Tratatu dakung ipas eku buri ita pu. Kabolgan ing malyari ngeni at sobrang matako la ngan keng sikan at pera. Makarine pu ini ala lang lugud, gracia, o respoto para kaku pu. Aláng alang nakung gana karela.

Ing Dios akakit nang eganagana 🙏🏽